In the religious history of the world given to Paul by
the Holy Spirit he lists many things that God gave men and women over to
because they turned their backs on Him. One section of this list, one verse,
says;
Romans 1:31 Without
understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural
affection, implacable,
unmerciful:
What does implacable
mean sandwiched as it is between without
natural affection and unmerciful?
The word is only used once in the Bible but the Lexicons
of Early Modern English Database online informs us that in 1611 it meant obstinate,
can’t be appeased, can’t be pacified, can’t be reconciled, and cannot be
pleased. Do we know someone in our personal lives, perhaps even ourselves, who
is possessed of an implacable spirit?
It is sin and wickedness, not just a personality
quirk. It is listed in a long line of things mankind is given over to by God
for their rejection of Him. It is something we who are implacable need to
repent of, not something that you who are not need to walk around on eggshells
because of lest you incur our unreasonable and unrighteous wrath. Let’s read
the entire history of mankind’s self-worshipping religious impulses carefully
to get a better understanding of what we are talking about in context of
unrighteousness.
Romans 1:16 ¶ For I am not
ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to
every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek. 17 For therein is the righteousness of God
revealed from faith to faith: as it is written, The just shall live by faith.
18 For the wrath of God is revealed from
heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth
in unrighteousness;
19 ¶ Because that which may be known of God is
manifest in them; for God hath shewed it
unto them. 20 For the invisible things
of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the
things that are made, even his
eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse: 21 Because that, when they knew God, they
glorified him not as God,
neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish
heart was darkened. 22 Professing
themselves to be wise, they became fools, 23
And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like
to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.
24 Wherefore God also gave them up to
uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own
bodies between themselves: 25 Who
changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature
more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen. 26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile
affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is
against nature: 27 And likewise also the
men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward
another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves
that recompence of their error which was meet. 28 And even as they did not like to retain God
in their knowledge, God gave
them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
29 Being filled with all
unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of
envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud,
boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers,
without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: 32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they
which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have
pleasure in them that do them.
1 ¶ Therefore thou art inexcusable, O man,
whosoever thou art that judgest: for wherein thou judgest another, thou
condemnest thyself; for thou that judgest doest the same things.
Paul noted that someone who is implacable is worthy of
death. Does that underscore the seriousness of this sin mentioned in context
with murder and homosexual behavior?
An example of an implacable person in the Bible is the
churlish fool, Nabal, who died of a heart attack of some kind. You can read
about him in 1Samuel 25 starting in verse 2 up until his heart died and he
became as a stone in 38, dying ten days later.
David did Nabal’s sheepshearers a kindness but Nabal
was not only ungrateful he insulted David and would have suffered for his
indiscretion had not his wife, Abigail, intervened on his behalf. His response
to David’s kindness was the following.
1Samuel 25:10 And Nabal
answered David’s servants, and said, Who is
David? and who is the son of
Jesse? there be many servants now a days that break away every man from his
master.11 Shall I then take my bread,
and my water, and my flesh that I have killed for my shearers, and give it unto men, whom I know not whence
they be?
We can call him ungrateful, ungracious, arrogant,
stupid, and even self-righteous, all symptoms of implacability.
Nebuchadnezzar shows us another side of implacability
when he gives his magicians an impossible task, recorded in Daniel, chapter 2,
which he knows is impossible and then commands their deaths when they cannot
perform. The implacable person you know, perhaps it is you, sets up conditions
that cannot be met and no reasonable person expects them to be met. You have no
chance of pleasing them and they know this.
In these two examples we have clues as to what an
implacable nature is like. It is ungrateful, ungracious, even arrogant, stupid,
self-righteousness, and sets up conditions that it knows cannot and will not be
met thereby making it impossible to please them, to gain their approval.
Some of us have had experience with a parent who would
never be pleased. Nothing you could do ever satisfied them. A child living
under those conditions has no foundation in what is acceptable behavior as
nothing he or she can do will ever please that parent. It can become a lifetime
pain in that child’s heart. It can give them a lifetime filled with anxiety and
the doubting of every decision they make with a constant nagging in their
hearts that nothing they ever do will ever be good enough. Or, they will just
grow to hate that parent and do everything possible to avoid them.
Fundamentalist preachers often misrepresent God as in
implacable parent. If you aren’t doing what that preacher wants you to do they
will say you are cold towards God and need revival regardless of your
relationship with God. They will call you worldly if you don’t have their
convictions. They’ll say that you need to ‘get right’ with God when they have
no idea of your prayer life or your time in God’s word or how you treat others.
The fact is, while we all need to draw closer to God,
He loves us. We can do nothing to earn our salvation or to pay for it as we go.
We’re not renting God’s love and in danger of being evicted from His kingdom
for not paying. God has already performed all the parts of the drama and we are
justified by what He has done not by anything we can do.
Romans 8:31 ¶ What shall we
then say to these things? If God be
for us, who can be against us?
32 He that spared not his own Son, but
delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all
things? 33 Who shall lay any thing to
the charge of God’s elect? It is
God that justifieth. 34 Who is he that condemneth? It is Christ that died, yea rather,
that is risen again, who is even at the right hand of God, who also maketh
intercession for us. 35 Who shall
separate us from the love of Christ? shall
tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or
sword? 36 As it is written, For thy sake
we are killed all the day long; we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter.
37 Nay, in all these things we are more
than conquerors through him that loved us. 38
For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor
principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, 39 Nor height, nor depth, nor any other
creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ
Jesus our Lord.
Ephesians 2:8 For by grace
are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: 9
Not of works, lest any man should boast.
Titus 3:5 Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he
saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost;
6 Which he shed on us abundantly through
Jesus Christ our Saviour;7 That being
justified by his grace, we should be made heirs according to the hope of
eternal life.
Now, I am certain we
disappoint God at times. It is certain that we can grieve the Holy Spirit and
dampen its influence in us.
Ephesians 4:30 And grieve not the holy Spirit of God,
whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption.
1Thessalonians 5:19 Quench not the Spirit.
And while God, who
often covers our debts keeping us from the consequences of our sins we commit
after becoming a Christian sometimes leaves us to have to deal with our
unfaithfulness to Him. But, that doesn’t mean He isn’t joyful when we sing a
hymn to Him, pray to Him, or read His word believing. God is not an implacable
being. He has placated Himself for His righteous wrath at our sin and He
delights in our seeking a relationship with Him. Our faith pleases God. Propitiation is the act of appeasing God
for His wrath at sins against Him.
Romans 3:25 Whom God hath
set forth to be a propitiation through faith in his
blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past,
through the forbearance of God;
1John 2:2 And he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for
ours only, but also for the sins of
the whole world.
1John 4:10 Herein is love,
not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.
Hebrews 11:6 But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must
believe that he is, and that he
is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.
God delights in showing
mercy to us.
Micah 7:18 Who is a God like unto thee, that pardoneth iniquity, and passeth by the
transgression of the remnant of his heritage? he retaineth not his anger for
ever, because he delighteth in mercy.
God wants to show you
mercy and He wants to show you His love.
But, the person
possessed of an implacable spirit only wants to show you judgment. And this, in
spite of;
James 2:13 For he shall
have judgment without mercy, that hath shewed no mercy;
and mercy rejoiceth against judgment.
An implacable spirit is
a prideful spirit. The world revolves around them. In fact, the more helpless
they seem, the more victimized they act, the more egotistical they are. This is
evident in an implacable person who is dominant and oppressive and demanding as
it is in one who seems weak and a victim. You cannot please them so they will
hurt you physically or you cannot please them so they will hurt you
emotionally.
Every glance, every
word, every failed action reveals your disrespect for them or an attempt to
hurt them. There is no winning with the implacable person.
King Ahab sought
counsel from so-called prophets in 1Kings 22. The only condition was that they
say what he wanted to hear. He even demanded of a prophet to tell him the truth
and then punished him for doing so because it was not what he wanted to hear.
This is another trait of the implacable spirit. They only want to hear what
approves of their opinion, bigotry, hatred, and prejudice. Any information to
the contrary is met with anger and wrath. You can’t win with these people. They
are never satisfied with your response unless it is exactly what they wanted to
hear. They will demand the truth and then lash out when the truth contradicts
their own fantasy.
A person might be
engaged in sin or dancing recklessly close to the edge. They will ask you about
what they are doing or want to do and even though you might say it is none of
your business they make it your business by demanding your opinion. But, when
you call them on their sin they attack you for sticking your nose in their
business, judging them, or being a hypocrite. It is impossible to satisfy their
perverted need for self-justification.
A consequence of an
implacable spirit is the infecting of others with the same. A parent, a spouse,
or an employer even for that matter, can be so unreasonable that their victim
becomes so suspicious and so wary of their dealings with them that they
themselves start to doubt everything that is said or done. Everything begins to
have a hidden motive represent an unseen agenda. This is a grave result of
being oppressed by an implacable spirit.
Now, how do you deal
with this implacable, unappeasable spirit?
Some people simply
ignore the implacable person. But, you can’t do that if it’s a parent or an
employer and you are dependent on them. And it takes a mighty thick skin to
keep being told what you are doing or saying is not good enough, never good
enough, or worse an attack on their importance, their dignity, or their
authority.
Remember before how I said that in Paul’s
letter to the Romans, in chapter 1, that implacable was sandwiched between without natural affection and unmerciful?
A person without natural affection shows
contempt for those they should love and cherish, for instance, their own
family. We don’t need an explanation of what unmerciful is and I’ve spoken at
length about how damaging being unmerciful can be. The implacable person is
between those two, lacking in the natural care and love they should feel and
being unmerciful.
An implacable spirit is caused by an angry
heart, a wrathful disposition, and even envy. What has God said about those
things?
We are warned not to dwell on our anger,
that it surrenders us to the Devil.
Ephesians 4:26 Be ye angry,
and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: 27 Neither give place to the devil.
We have been warned
about the twisted power of envy.
Proverbs 27:4 Wrath is cruel, and anger
is outrageous; but who is able to stand before envy?
These things can rise up from a root of
bitterness that we let fester in our hearts. There are warnings about
bitterness, the disappointment and anger that comes from frustrated and usually
false and unreasonable expectations.
Colossians 3:19 Husbands,
love your wives, and be not bitter against
them.
Continuing in Ephesians, chapter 4 we
find;
Ephesians 4:29 Let no
corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the
use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers. 30 And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of
redemption. 31 Let all bitterness, and
wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with
all malice: 32 And be ye kind one to
another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake
hath forgiven you.
Part of the problem is pride, the ultimate
sin of Satan. The tyranny of the weak or the dominant personality is that the
entire universe revolves around them, their needs, and their desires, their
expectations, their frustrations, their disappointments.
Proverbs 16:18 Pride goeth before destruction, and an
haughty spirit before a fall.
“Who do they think they are? Not showing
me the respect I deserve! After all, I’ve worked so hard, given so much, had to
put up with so much. I’ll show them.”
Now, that we’ve laid the groundwork let’s
take this airplane out of the hangar.
You cannot honestly consider your behavior
as glorifying to Christ and evidence of your faith with an implacable spirit.
Are you possessed of an implacable spirit?
Are you possessed by it? What does it take to please you? What do other people
have to do to satisfy you that their words or behavior are not threatening,
insulting, or filled with contempt?
If it is a matter of just showing decent
respect and consideration for you then most people are going to fall short. For
instance, I hate surprises; surprise parties, surprise visits, surprise
anything. But, a lot of people love surprises. They might want to throw a party
to show their affection or stop by unannounced when they are in the
neighborhood. It is not meant to be insulting or demeaning or controlling or
disrespectful even if it makes you feel dreadful. I don’t handle surprises well
but go into fight or flight mode.
We who have an implacable spirit tend to
be paranoid, ascribing mean motives to people around us. The implacable
employer has contempt for his employees. The implacable mother has contempt for
her children, sons and daughters in-law, and husband. The implacable father can
never be pleased by any action his children or wife take, any words they say,
as they all fall short of his expectations, which are always moving away from
them.
The implacable pastor is always telling
you that you don’t measure up and that you are a big disappointment to God.
So, the next time you feel righteously
indignant because someone didn’t show you what you consider proper respect or
even just decent consideration or the next time you feel your spouse didn’t
show you the respect that even a roommate deserves think about it. Are your
feelings truthful, the true result of a hateful and mean-spirited action by
another? Or are they a consequence of your own inability to be pleased,
appeased, and satisfied?
The next time your employer makes a decision
that impacts you negatively was it an effort directed at making you want to
quit? Or was it just something he felt was necessary based on the information
he had that you didn’t and wasn’t even thinking about you when he decided it?
The next time your neighbor’s dog relieves
himself in your yard was it an expression of contempt by your neighbor through
his dog or was it just one of those things that really had nothing to do with
you at all?
The next time a child spills a glass of
milk in the living room was it them showing their rebellious spirit in defiance
of you or was it simply a matter of you allowing things in your home that are a
disaster waiting to happen and the child wasn’t even thinking of you or
anything else, for that matter.
Examine yourself. Then, plead with God for
deliverance from the sin that so easily controls you and hinders your
relationship with Christ and with those around you.
If you live with a person possessed of an
implacable they need your prayers. But, they do not need your acquiescence.
Don’t be an enabler. Don’t encourage them in their sin. You wouldn’t encourage
them to lie or commit adultery so why help them in their festering implacable
spirit that leads to bitterness, envy, and contempt for others? When that
implacable spirit rises up it is imperative that you stand against it.
There are many more things that can be
said about the implacable spirit having to do with the sins of envy and wrath
and other things that God has condemned in our lives but each of them merit a
separate discussion. So, please consider this rough outline. Consider what I’ve
said and ask God to deal with it in your life.
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