1
¶ And Dinah the daughter of Leah, which
she bare unto Jacob, went out to see the daughters of the land. 2 And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite,
prince of the country, saw her, he took her, and lay with her, and defiled her.
3 And his soul clave unto Dinah the
daughter of Jacob, and he loved the damsel, and spake kindly unto the damsel.
4 And Shechem spake unto his father
Hamor, saying, Get me this damsel to wife. 5
And Jacob heard that he had defiled Dinah his daughter: now his sons
were with his cattle in the field: and Jacob held his peace until they were
come.
What happens next is not Dinah’s fault any more than
your car being stolen from its parking space because you left it unlocked is
your fault. Sin is the fault of the person who commits the sin. The offence has
come through the thief. However, living carelessly has its punishments. Here,
we learn something about what Paul speaks of in Titus 2:5, a woman being discrete
and keeping at home. Dinah was rather unlike her male ancestors who acted quite
cautiously and were very worried about even the possible intentions of those
around them. She ventured out to see the daughters of the land and was raped by
Shechem, the son of that territory’s ruler. Notice the phrasing, saw her, he took her, and lay with her, and
defiled her. There is no hint here of a consensual act.
First, prince means
a ruler and a judge. Notice the synonyms joined by and in the following verses.
Exodus
2:14 And he said, Who made thee a prince and a judge over us? intendest
thou to kill me, as thou killedst the Egyptian? And Moses feared, and said,
Surely this thing is known.
Ac
7:35 This Moses whom they refused,
saying, Who made thee a ruler and a
judge? the same did God send to be a
ruler and a deliverer by the hand of the angel which appeared to him in the
bush.
The words king and
prince denote ruler and final
authority in judgment over a people, a chieftain by today’s standards in more
primitive cultures.
Proverbs
14:28 In the multitude of people is the
king’s honour: but in the want of people is the destruction of the prince.
Dinah, apparently being without any strong protection,
was obviously raped. Remember that Abraham and Isaac both had fear that the
ruler of the land in which they sought a place to live temporarily would kill
them so that ruler could easily take their wives. God did not prevent this from
happening as he did prevent the women’s defilement in those former cases.
Apparently, the ancient world in this area, was a very
dangerous place for women who did not have the men of their family to protect
them, as much of it is today, in the Middle East. God will eventually give a
law that protects women in these circumstances but in their relation to the
group, the Hebrews. But, when we get to the Law given to Moses we must
understand that those Laws are the civil and religious ordinances for the
Hebrew people separating them from the people around them, and do not go far
enough for the Christian as Christ and Paul lay out the spirit of those Laws
rather than the carnal letter which dealt with the flesh itself. The Law given
to Moses was more about the integrity and character of the group than the
character and integrity of the individual as God was separating a people of a
particular ethnicity unto Him rather than a person who had no abiding nation on
earth necessarily.
Shechem’s heart was smitten by Dinah, though, and he
felt tenderness toward her after his violence rather than the contempt, for
instance, that Amnon felt for Tamar in 2Samuel 13 after he raped her. He
petitioned his father to ask for her in marriage. Jacob knew what had happened
but, in his position of being a guest, a stranger in their land, exercised
restraint, waiting for his sons to come in from the field. His position was not
good. The rape of Dinah will be felt as a wrong committed against the family,
the group, more importantly than against Dinah, as an individual. This is
clearly a different sort of attitude than the Christian feels, as all sin is
against God and against the person, and government is established to punish
those who do evil. In fact, if you read Romans 13 it is one of the only
justifications for human government.
Dinah may have had the opportunity to visit the daughters of the land. She may have even
had the right to do so. But, it was not a very smart thing to do, not thinking
through the situation without protection. She is not to blame here for the
crime as you own your sin. But she was not wise. Still, God allowed this to
happen to set in motion something revealing to us. I remember in college when
there was a campus rapist in operation many of the young men trying to convince
the young women that although they had the right to go on their own across
campus at night to the library it was not smart to do so without an escort.
This, of course, offended the modern feminist, whose rights the rapist predator
could not have cared about in the least.
It is a callous error, though, of modern
fundamentalism to insist that men cannot control themselves and that if a man
acts wrongly out of lust it is a woman’s fault. As I said earlier, regardless
of how you want to cut it, you own your own sin. Don’t put it off on the
employer who leaves money to tempt you, the girl who passes by you wearing too
revealing clothing, or the person who runs into a store leaving the keys in his
car. Take responsibility. Child molesters will even blame a child for enticing
them. This is a wicked thought pattern, of course.
We will learn here another principle of the Bible. One
crime does not blot out another. God allowed this to happen to reveal
something, to show us the character and nature of the patriarchs of the Hebrew
people. In this, they are going to be shown as very much like the people around
them, from whom God is drawing them out. Paul writes in Romans 15 that these
things were written about for our learning. So, learn.
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