Genesis
50:15 ¶ And when Joseph’s brethren saw
that their father was dead, they said, Joseph will peradventure hate us, and
will certainly requite us all the evil which we did unto him. 16 And they sent a messenger unto Joseph,
saying, Thy father did command before he died, saying, 17 So shall ye say unto Joseph, Forgive, I pray
thee now, the trespass of thy brethren, and their sin; for they did unto thee
evil: and now, we pray thee, forgive the trespass of the servants of the God of
thy father. And Joseph wept when they spake unto him. 18 And his brethren also went and fell down
before his face; and they said, Behold, we be thy servants. 19 And Joseph said unto them, Fear not: for am I
in the place of God? 20 But as for you,
ye thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good, to bring to pass, as it
is this day, to save much people alive. 21
Now therefore fear ye not: I will nourish you, and your little ones. And
he comforted them, and spake kindly unto them.
We have no
evidence that Jacob told his sons to make this request of Joseph. As far as we
know this is pure self-interest and understandable as the brother whom they
abused is the second most powerful man in their world’s great superpower. They
plead with Joseph, through a messenger, not to seek revenge and then further
the plea in person. But, they do admit the evil that they did to him in
restraining him in the pit and selling him into slavery into Egypt those years
ago.
Joseph wept when
they spoke to him. Then, he gave an important statement about God’s permissive
will that we all must understand if we are to understand reality. This is akin to understanding through the
book of Job how all reality, even the most simple thing like dust turning into
a clod of dirt in a farmer’s field (see Job 38:38), is a function of His will.
Man chooses to do evil; malicious violence, with harmful intent. God can and
does use that bad intent to accomplish something for His purpose. You can’t
escape His will, though try as you might.
This principle
will be noted in the book of Esther, that God’s hand and control can be seen in
all events and He has a purpose for us in that situation that we may be blessed
by if we acknowledge His sovereignty.
Esther
4:13 Then Mordecai commanded to answer
Esther, Think not with thyself that thou shalt escape in the king’s house, more
than all the Jews.14 For if thou
altogether holdest thy peace at this time, then shall there enlargement and deliverance arise to the Jews
from another place; but thou and thy father’s house shall be destroyed: and who
knoweth whether thou art come to the kingdom for such a time as this?
This does not make
our evil acceptable. The follower of Christ who believes in His resurrection
and that He is the visible image of God, the body of God, and to see Him is to
see God, and is the only way to God the Father, in other words, a Christian, is
not to do evil so that good may come. In Romans 3 Paul condemns those who twist
His words to make it sound like that is what he is implying, that we may do
evil that good may come. Instead, we are to seek God’s complete and perfect
will as he said in Romans 12.
Romans
12:1 ¶ I beseech you therefore,
brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living
sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. 2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye
transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good,
and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
We
are to keep our minds focused on what is right and good.
Philippians
4:8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things
are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever
things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good
report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these
things.
And
to permit the fruit or proof of having God’s Spirit indwelling us to shine from
us.
Galatians
5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is
love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, 23 Meekness, temperance: against such there is
no law.
Any so-called
Christian who professes that they are willing to do evil so that God may bring
something good out of it should be removed from the congregation and you should
have no fellowship with them. Your only action should be to pray for them, that
they may be genuinely saved at some point before it is too late.
God used Joseph’s
brothers’ human frailty and hatred of him as a youth to set up His temporal
salvation of the people He was creating for Himself.
Joseph forgave and
did not seek revenge for wrongs done to him. The Bible speaks often of
forgiveness, particularly under the Law where there was a judgment for not
forgiving.
Matthew 6:14
For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also
forgive you:
Mark 11:26 But
if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your
trespasses.
Paul
told us that revenge belongs to God.
Romans 12:19
Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath:
for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
Joseph understood these things more than most
Christians, particularly in dealing with wrongs done to them by the members of
their own family.
Jesus forgave His
brethren, the Jews, on the cross, for their ignorance.
Luke
23:34 Then said Jesus, Father, forgive
them; for they know not what they do…
A willingness to
forgive is a fundamental Christian principle although it does go against the
American ideal of demanding respect from others and getting fired up if we
don’t get our “propers.” In fact, we are so jaded that we will treat someone
else in a cruel or thoughtless manner and then become incensed when they
respond negatively. We then talk about forgiving them, as Christians, ignoring
the fact that we were the original malefactors.
Joseph was abused
by his brothers; kidnapped and sold into slavery. He rose to prominence in his
new surroundings and was able to turn around and help his own family survive.
He realizes God’s hand in these events and does not turn and rend his brothers.
He promises to care for them and their families and does so. There are many
lessons here for those of us going through trials and tribulations with our
families. We must always realize, in every thing, God’s hand in the affairs of
men who think they are in control, when they are not. Joseph is a prime example
we should follow not some character in an action movie about ‘get-backs’ on
people who have hurt you. Remember, though, the brothers are repentant.
Forgiveness can only include restoration when there is repentance. That is an
important lesson to learn, as well, as some fundamentalists demand women who
are abused not only to forgive their tormentor but to restore a sincerely
unrepentant tormentor to a position where they can do more harm.
Still, the
important thing in this passage is the quality of Joseph’s forgiveness as he
recognizes how God acted in his life. We see this more often than we admit if
our eyes are open.